2021.10.17 17:55 Dr_Jon_Dow Calum Wilson Goal at 2 Minutes
2021.10.17 17:55 _alexotoole I enjoy being single and I am proud of it
I get tired of people constantly asking me why I'm still single, or why I haven't found anybody to date yet. Firstly, the fact that you are asking a question of such in the first place means you know full well that the task is clearly not an easy one for me. Whether it's because of situations and complexities which are in my control; or out of my control, either way, the fact that you feel the need to be nosy about it kind of suggests your insecurity of it rather than my own.
I love being by myself. I love having the bed to myself, I love watching my own shows, I love doing my own hobbies, I love spending time with my family, or the occasional friends I do get to hang out with.
Yes it definitely can be shitty being alone and isolated most of the time, yes it can feel overwhelming wondering if it's a destiny to be alone for the rest of my life, not always by choice. Sometimes I do crave intimacy. Sometimes I do crave connection, sometimes I do crave the experience of living life with somebody else, who I love, and who loves me. But what we want in life we just cannot always have. And at this point I'm willing to accept that.
I'm 5'9, 23 yr old man, from the uk, born with not the most prettiest of faces out there, shall we just say. I workout 3-4x per week, keep up with my job, and hobbies. And yes, I have been called ugly, regularly, and yes, I feel I get mistreated because of the way I look. But I try not to let it hold me back, because I have goals, and I have experiences of being happy.
I enjoy what being single brings to me. I enjoy waking up everyday knowing I can go about my day in pure blissful silence. I enjoy being able to save up and buy whatever the fuck I want. Do whatever the fuck I want. I enjoy the peace of being single brings to my life. The fact that people are literally ashamed of these experiences are nothing short of insecure trying to force their negative energies and opinions onto others about how they should try to find someone or be with someone.
It can actually do more harm for me than good at this point being in a relationship. I have never experienced one. So at this age lack of experience would be a complete turn off for a lot of women out there. Which, on its own, that mentality some women will hold (and men) is really shitty. But I respect the reasons.
I do desire it and maybe one day it'll happen for me, when I'm really not looking, when I really start to look successful without fully realising, or I become happy to the point of happy tears or experiences so consistent.
But hey, each to their own. Live and let live. Stop criticising people who want to be single, and stop criticising and judging those who don't want a relationship. Your pressure on them it's not making their situation easier, or any more fun and helpful. Let them pave the way for themselves and build up the life they want and finally find their own visual and desire of a relationship on their own.
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2021.10.17 17:55 Safe_Lake_37 Can anyone tell me what my dog is mixed with?? The lady i got him from said he is a Belgian Malinois/lab mixed but idk if i believe that..
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2021.10.17 17:55 dancingdonkey18 Genuine question: Why do pretend like its the end of the world to download external apps to customize windows?
The scene is different on linux. I also use arch with KDE plasma and literally every other element is a separate app like the dock which is kind of the main component. So, why do most people INSIST on windows fixing a certain problem while a third party application is doing exactly what they want?
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2021.10.17 17:55 Jimmy321123 Does anyone have the link to the article mentioned in the Closer in which he was 'Punching down' on LGBTQ folk
2021.10.17 17:55 Lakhan_Edits I found this, in terminator movie
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2021.10.17 17:55 kevinakua My girlfriend is getting upset that I’m falling asleep without texting her goodnight.
My girlfriend (f19) and I (m23) are currently in a long distance situation that’s been going on for a year and a half as she goes to college and I work back home. Everything is great and she’s awesome except every once in a while I will fall asleep without saying goodnight. Once that happens she will be fuming with anger the next morning and I try and plead my case because well it happens sometimes where I just fall asleep trying to stay awake for her. I apologize and let her know that I’m sorry for falling asleep but, like now, she is ignoring me. I don’t think there’s any blame on either side but maybe there is and I’m just not seeing it. I’m not sure what to say to her or if I’m just being an asshole. Anyone have some advice or just an outside opinion on the situation?
TLDR: I text my girlfriend goodnight but when I rarely don’t she gets really upset with me and I don’t know what to do.
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2021.10.17 17:55 Pvz_Gamer yellow face after inventing warehouses
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2021.10.17 17:55 Johny373 need trips for Yamaha tw125 exhaust
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2021.10.17 17:55 ThrowawayBanksHD Anyone on Windows unable to open the splice app?
Whenever I click the desk stop icon the loading circle will flash for a second then nothing happens. Tried restarting my laptop to no avail. Any advice or anyone having similar issues?
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2021.10.17 17:55 DecoyNumber7 It was nice to get to see one again after 100k miles.
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2021.10.17 17:55 Sickness4D_THICCness To the heartless bastard fuck who put Nair in a shampoo bottle, I’ll see you in hell.
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2021.10.17 17:55 WenlockOlympics Old flags from my card album (FYI the set was issued in 1928)
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2021.10.17 17:55 SerranoCool_q123 Juice WRLD Poll Opinion
2021.10.17 17:55 A-casual-shitpost Noice
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2021.10.17 17:55 PrestigeEditionBooks All Targon Audiobooks on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and More!
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2021.10.17 17:55 Additional_Paint_693 Padsicles: yay or nay?
2021.10.17 17:55 Dln_rz hii guys! hingi lang po ako advise
hii i just bought my first carbon road bike po, i do some research na din po pero hingi din po ako sainyo. do's and dont's po pag may carbon road bike?
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2021.10.17 17:55 Electronic_Face_719 Is my deck good
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2021.10.17 17:55 halibabica Ahh, Here Goes (Exit Music: Redux Pt.1)
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2021.10.17 17:55 StillGore06 My Soppo is a war criminal
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2021.10.17 17:55 daddio9497 Dynasty. PPR. Bench ?
2021.10.17 17:55 alstraka Went to replace my m.2 drive just to find out this remove sticker has been on here for a while year